On Peer Pressure and Social Change
If all mankind minus one were of one opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person than he, if he had the power, would be justified in silencing mankind. — John Stuart Mill
On Communication
The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said. — Peter Drucker
Ending Contention
Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; likewise, where there is no talebearer, strife ceases. — The Bible, Proverbs 26:20
It’s Okay to Say No
The inability to say no to the bad is pervasive. Not only does it keep us from refusing evil in our lives, it often keeps us from recognizing evil. — Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, in Boundaries
On Friendship
Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation. — George Washington